My weekend was fabulous! The weather was absolutely perfect AND I got a lot of personal stuff done. I’m ready to tackle some of the bigger stuff now, like the 7 months of mail sitting in my office, understanding and reducing the bills associated to my rental condo, and file my taxes. One of my New Years Resolutions was to get my financial house in order, I better start working on it if I’m going to accomplish anything this year.
Ok, back to my weekend. Friday was great – I went to the Giants game with my friends Fiesty, Money, and their family. The Giants lost, but I had the luxury of watching the game from a Box, eat a hot dog, some buffalo wings, a bit of mac and cheese, AND drink champagne and wine. I also got to meet a few of Fiesty’s family members, cousins… who were very cool and fun to hang out with.
On Saturday I ran a few errands then went to dinner at my favorite restaurant with SmartyPants, C-Licious, and Dancing Queen. C-Licious went home to take care of her sick hubby, and then Dancing Queen headed home at 9:30pm to take care of her darling boys. That left SmartyPants and I together, and being slightly buzzed, we came up with a great idea – Dancing. We hit the local dance club (not fancy at all … and we were the only white people in the room). I called up GFP and he showed up 20 minutes later and the dance party was started… and did not end until 11:30 or so.
So here is the interesting part, and shows, very clearly, that I do not have an “off button”. We all went back to my house (good decision) and SmartyPants went directly to bed. I tried to get her to stay up and play some more, but alas she was down and out for the night ((another good decision – I don’t call her SmartyPants for nothing). I then proceeded to make GFP and myself a few pomegranate martini’s (bad decision #1 )… we got stoned (bad decision #2 ), drank our martini’s (bad decision #3), ate a few snacks… We watched Shawshank Redemption 3 times… and here is the kicker.. we started making out (bad decision # 4, 5, and 6)… ! I know! WTF right? We’ve been hanging out since January and nothing has happened except one time in early February then he gave me the “let’s be friends” talk… Which I was fine with – he’s a great guy. Anyway, I have no idea how it started, but it did. I’m not exactly sure what to do about it except chalk it up as another instance of making a bad decision. I don’t think its a big deal, we should probably talk about it just to clear the air, that “just friends” doesn’t include sexual contact…..
So, tonight is a sobriety night for me. I’m going to bed sober here in about 40 minutes. This week is going to be SO FUN as Unicorns is coming into town. I cannot wait to see her, and our adventures will give me much to write about… yeah for all of us!
Paula's Ponderings 
Ohhhhh Paula,
don’t take is too serious. You did not get a tattoo, go to Vegas and marry the guy, or wake up naked with him in a public park. You were drunk and so was he. Your discomfort is probably as much as his.
He was a friend that you shared an attraction once and the liquid courage pushed the walls aside for a little while.
You say he is a great guy and likes you very much so he is probably terrified of you will say good by out of embarrsment.
You don’t work for him or with him just imagine how that would be. Or even worce if he was your ex! * See it could have been way way way worce.
Sounds like you had a great time and learned a lesson about when to say enough.
Enjoy the wagon for a few days and be well H.S.
* I honestly know you would ever go the ex rout, they have not made enough Vodka. Was just an illistration to make you swallow and say shwooo, its OK.
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