So, it has been a long time. So much time has passed, it is hard to know where to start.
In my last post I was very sad that my bestie was moving. Turns out that we both moved out of the Bay Area. My role at the company I was working at was eliminated. I didn’t want the long hours or the long commute ever again, so I made a quick decision – to move to Utah and figure out my employment situation at a later date.
So that’s what I did. I bought a house in December, moved to Utah in January. I am now settled in, just a week or so of unpacking/organizing left. I am happy to be in Utah for many reasons, most importantly:
- Closer to family – my niece AbFab and her kids Shanaynah and Mayonaise.
- Closer to what matters – relationships (not money).. I love that I know my neighbors, that they look after me (and I them). That good family, kids, and community are important to people here. This is NOT what I experienced the last 3 years in the Bay Area.
- Space – I have a house, a real house, a front and back yard, room for visitors, and most importantly, the right space/place for me to nest and feel at home.
What is hard? Socializing. The focus here is on family and kids.. there isn’t much for me in the way of Happy Hours or social events. I have joined a few Meet-Ups but have yet to attend any…. I will when I return.
Return from what you may ask? VACATION!! I was invited back for another yachting adventure ( I cannot believe that I didn’t write about my last yacht trip!!). This year we are headed to St. Lucia. 10 days, on a real yacht, touring the Caribbean, snorkeling, sunning myself on the yacht body deck, new tan lines, good food, great wine..
I will also need to find a job when I return. I have been focused on obtaining a job at a Bay Area company… I will expand my horizon when I get home. I am going to look for consulting opportunities as well as starting my own business. I see so much opportunity, I just don’t know how to get started or better said, where to start.
Anyway, I have been spending a lot of time with my nieces, Shanaynay and Mayonaise, who are turning 8 and 10 (remember how important getting older was?!?!).. Shanaynay asked me to be her chaperone at a school field trip. I am so honored, she is super excited! She wrote me this note this week… it says:
Dear Paula: I love you so much. I love when I come to your house and take a visit. I love when we go ice skating but most important of all is spending time with you. Love Shanaynay.
makes your heart melt doesn’t it? This is why I moved.